What is chudai?

A word that has recently found a renaissance in use on twitter where its usage began in August of 2024.

But its original meaning was much more specific. It can be found in lexicons dating to the latter half of the 1800s. There its definition is more specific to “(to) fuck (for money)” ie sex work.

It’s derived from Urdu-Hindi, colloquially called Hindustani, meaning “(to) fuck” as in sex.

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?

Chirag Gosar.

What is chudai?

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